Who Tells Your Story? A Legacy Beyond Wealth

June 18, 2025

At the end of Lin-Manuel Miranda’s hit musical Hamilton, the final song asks a question that lingers long after the curtain falls: “Who lives, who dies, who tells your story?” After two and a half hours chronicling ambition, revolution, sacrifice, and achievement, the show leaves its audience not with fanfare—but with reflection. For all his brilliance and effort, Alexander Hamilton cannot control how he’ll be remembered. That responsibility falls to those he leaves behind—his wife, his peers, his country.

The song becomes a meditation on legacy—not just what we accomplish in life, but how our story is told after we’re gone, and who gets to tell it. Eliza Hamilton, in her final act of devotion, becomes the steward of his legacy, founding an orphanage, collecting his writings, and telling the story that history might have otherwise overlooked.

For today’s wealth creators, the question is no less urgent. After a lifetime of building, investing, and achieving, what narrative will your wealth carry forward? Will it tell the story of accumulation—or one of impact? Will it simply pass from one generation to the next—or will it say something enduring about who you were and what you valued?

Charitable legacy planning offers a powerful answer. Like Eliza’s orphanage or Hamilton’s essays, your philanthropic choices become part of the story your wealth tells. They reflect your beliefs, your aspirations, and your hope for the future. And when thoughtfully structured—through donor-advised funds, family foundations, charitable trusts, or legacy bequests—they not only preserve wealth but give it voice, purpose, and meaning beyond your lifetime.

Because in the end, legacy isn’t just about what you leave behind. It’s about how you are remembered. And just like in Hamilton, it’s the actions you take—and the generosity you show—that shape who tells your story, and how that story is told.

Generosity, when embedded into the architecture of an estate plan, can do far more than support worthy causes—it can catalyze a family’s evolution into something greater than the sum of its inheritance. Philanthropic structures like private foundations and donor-advised funds don’t just create channels for giving; they cultivate a space for shared values, long-term collaboration, and intergenerational growth.

For instance, consider a second-generation entrepreneur who bequeaths $10 million to establish a foundation focused on community health and education. Her three adult children, previously scattered by geography and divergent worldviews, now meet quarterly to evaluate grants, assess impact, and set strategic priorities.

One daughter, a physician, begins mentoring young nonprofit leaders through the foundation’s grantee network. Another son, a business consultant, introduces operational efficiencies and begins co-investing in impact ventures with partners he met through the foundation’s advisory board.

The youngest, a school administrator, spearheads a new scholarship program and builds local partnerships with community colleges. What began as financial governance evolves into active civic engagement—and a revitalized sibling bond.

This kind of philanthropy fosters human capital in ways traditional inheritance rarely can. Heirs develop practical skills: reading balance sheets, assessing organizational health, conducting due diligence, and engaging in ethical decision-making. But they also gain something subtler—public credibility, leadership confidence, and relational capital.

A grandson serving on the youth board of the family foundation might be invited to a state education summit. A daughter overseeing a healthcare portfolio is asked to join a nonprofit hospital board. The family’s name, once just associated with industry or enterprise, becomes linked with civic good.

Over time, these experiences build bridges to new professional networks, deepen empathy, and reinforce a shared identity rooted in purpose rather than privilege. In this light, philanthropy is not just an addendum to a well-crafted estate plan—it is the catalyst for a generative family legacy and proof how an allocation to charitable causes can likewise serve as an investment in a family’s growth.

For many high-net-worth individuals, legacy planning is largely a defensive strategy—focused on tax mitigation, asset protection, and passing wealth to heirs with minimal disruption. Within that framework, philanthropy can seem like an outlier: a luxury at best, a liability at worst. Some fear it drains resources or invites complications; others worry it places too much trust in causes beyond the family’s control.

But this skepticism often obscures a deeper truth: when integrated thoughtfully, philanthropy is not a loss—it’s a multiplier. It offers real tax advantages and can actually increase what’s preserved for heirs. More importantly, it turns wealth into a vehicle for transmitting values, inspiring purpose, and uniting generations around a shared mission. Strategic giving doesn’t dilute a legacy—it deepens it, transforming an estate plan from a financial document into a meaningful, enduring story.

Charitable giving, when thoughtfully woven into an estate plan, serves a dual purpose: it is both financially strategic and profoundly meaningful. On the technical side, it remains one of the most effective ways to reduce estate and capital gains taxes. Assets gifted to qualified charities are fully deductible from the taxable estate (federally), and appreciated assets donated during life or at death can bypass capital gains entirely. More sophisticated tools—like Charitable Remainder Trusts (CRTs) and Charitable Lead Trusts (CLTs) to name a few—allow donors to support their chosen causes while still generating income for themselves or their heirs. These types of strategies demonstrate that generosity and financial prudence are not mutually exclusive—in fact, they often complement each other.

Yet the deeper value of philanthropy lies beyond tax efficiency. Strategic giving transforms wealth into a reflection of identity. A bequest can say, “I believed in education,” “I stood for access to healthcare,” or “I wanted to preserve this community.” These choices become lasting markers of one’s character and values, allowing wealth to speak long after the individual is gone. In this sense, philanthropy becomes more than a tactic—it becomes a testament.

Still, the hesitation is real. High-net-worth individuals often worry about losing control over their assets, igniting family tension, or overcommitting in ways that could compromise their future security. These concerns are valid, but they are also surmountable. Modern philanthropic structures offer a spectrum of flexibility. Donor-advised funds allow you to make a tax-efficient gift now while retaining advisory control over distributions for years to come. Charitable trusts can be tailored to your income needs and legacy goals. And when philanthropy becomes a shared family endeavor—inviting children or grandchildren into discussions about mission, values, and grantmaking—it can strengthen family bonds, not strain them.

Ultimately, integrating charitable giving into your estate is not about giving something up. It’s about investing in something greater: a legacy that reflects who you are, supports the causes you believe in, and gives your wealth a purpose that endures. With the right planning and guidance, philanthropy doesn’t diminish a legacy—it completes it.

And here’s the most hopeful truth of all: you don’t need to be a Carnegie or a Buffett to leave a legacy. Even a modest bequest can change lives, fund futures, preserve beauty, or fight injustice. What matters is alignment: between your values and your wealth, between your story and the impact you want it to have. As Andrew Carnegie once said, “Surplus wealth is a sacred trust.” Whether your surplus is vast or modest, the opportunity remains: to use it to do something lasting, something that reflects not just what you built—but who you were.

If you have questions about how charitable giving could fit into your broader financial picture—whether through your investment portfolio, estate plan, or family legacy—we’re here to help. As your fiduciary advisor, our role is to help you steward your wealth wisely and meaningfully. Please don’t hesitate to reach out should you have any questions or would like to further discuss personalized charitable giving.

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